Having grandchildren is one of the best finest gifts. But i have found that i cannot overwhelm my children with my love for their kids. I do not go to their homes daily... but picking them up from schools and spending some time with them, getting them books, reading to them, is emotionally gratifying. Children want to prove to you that they know how to take care of their child, and you want to let them do that. Interfering in their day to day lives, is something that would not be a good thing for them or for you. But at the same time, when they need help, you are there for them instantly.